Happy Anniversary Danny...

My wonderful husband - I will never forget the day that you asked me to be your wife. Your proposal at the Kennedy Center absolutely took my breath away - I couldn't believe it was true - I was going to be with you for the rest of my life! You were the one I had always dreamed of, the one I had waited for so long... You won my heart with your kind and gentle ways, the way that you served me, the way you pursued me, your compassionate, sensitive heart, and let's not forget about your beautiful blue eyes!! I knew I wanted to be your wife, and I knew I wanted YOU to be the father of my children...
Our wedding day was a fairy tale come true. I was the princess, you were my prince. I will never forget coming down the aisle and starting to tremble uncontrollably as my Dad comforted me with his firm grip, and then seeing nobody but you at the end of that aisle. The tears were flowing down your cheeks before I even took one step, and by the time I got to you, there was nobody else in that room. It was just you and me, and I was no longer nervous about being the center of everyone's stares.


The song you sang for me completely melted my heart, and I will NEVER forget it... I can't believe still that you actually got through it. I cherish that moment forever. Then there was the moment that we leaned toward each other for our first kiss - not just as husband and wife - but our first kiss ever. It was magical. The world disappeared again, and it was just you and me. Thank you for leading us to that point where we were able to come before God, having walked out our relationship in complete purity. That first kiss felt like the blessings of a thousand lifetimes were upon me.


And then, when we walked to the back of the aisle, and your brother said "welcome to the family" I once again couldn't believe that we had actually done it! You had actually married me! You didn't find a reason to get out of it! haha

Our first dance was also completely magical. Again, I felt there was nobody in the world but you and me... what an amazing feeling, being so in love with my handsome prince and dancing with him in my beautiful dress... I wish I could re-live that day over and over...


Thank you for many years of absolute joy, passion and romance. You have been a faithful, kind, serving, gentle husband. You have loved me when I did not deserve it, you have served me when you didn't feel like it, you have always put me first above yourself. God blessed me beyond measure the day he made you my husband...

May we have many many more years of love, romance, happiness and passion. May our marriage and lives glorify God continually, and may we never take each other for granted. I love you so much, my dear darling Daniel...

Fall Happenings

It has been a long time since I have posted anything - life for the Dustins has been very full and busy. School is taking up most of my day this year and so there is very little time left for anything extra. We have managed to squeeze in some fun fall memories though! These were the kids costumes this year - Ryan as Peter, High King of Narnia, Hannah is a Renaissance lady, and Jacob, of course, is a very handsome Indiana Jones!

I am not sure who the big hairy guy is in the back...

We managed to carve some pumpkins this year as well.



"The leaves crunch under my feet as I walk, the wind blows ever so elegantly. The leaves rustle in the wind after turning into that reddish-orange color. The steady fall of Autumn leaves, falling to the ground. It's all just so beautiful". This is what Hannah wrote as a description of fall... she summed it up so well.

A couple weeks ago Danny took the boys on a camping trip for the weekend and Hannah and I stayed home and did some home-projects, decorated for fall, and went to hear Carolyn Mahaney's message on beauty. We watched HOURS of Jane Austen movies while we crunched on a huge bag of Cheetos. We had a lovely tea, and thoroughly enjoyed our "Jane Austen, home-decorating, beauty" weekend!!! This is a tradition now in the Dustin family - this being the second year in a row we have done this - boys go camping, girls stay home. It is really a tradition we hope to continue forever, even with in-laws and grandchildren.

Hannah and I went to Butlers Orchard and gathered pumpkins.

Meanwhile, the boys were at their campsite battling spiders, cold weather, rain, and rubber beds. Let's just say that I am glad that this is a "boy only" weekend...

This year Danny bought a special game to play in the cabin if it rained. Let's just say they played HOURS of this new game!!

Happy Fall everyone!!!

Star Wars Themed Dinner

Last night we had a WONDERFUL family night with a STAR WARS theme!! I had bought each of the boys a Star Wars cookbook years ago, and up until last night, Ryan had not made his meal of choice. He looked at all the pictures, made his choice of entree, drink and dessert, and then we shopped. Then we chopped. Then we marinated. Then we grilled. Then we squeezed. Then we frosted. And finally, we ate!!! After our delicious meal we played a four hour game of Star Wars Monopoly. Yes, we actually completed an entire game of Monopoly lasting until 10:30 last night, with Ryan coming out the winner (we were so glad he won, it was his night after all!!)

He had made everyone their own little R2D2 dessert on a plate with their name. He was so creative and spent a good deal of time making these - especially since he had to improvise the ingredients from the recipe as all the kit kats we bought earlier in the week (that were meant to be for the dessert) were eaten!

This is the centerpiece of the table - can you tell this is R2D2??

The main entree of the meal was "Obi-Wan Kabobs", which Ryan decided later to call Lighsabers!

We also made "Yoda-Sodas" - very cool green drink with fresh limes and lime sherbert. Delicious!!

Matt and Jacob looking hesitantly at their food...

Later, here is Jacob figuring out how much Danny owed him for landing on his property!!

We had one of the Star Wars movies playing in the background all night as well. It really was a fun night - and Hannah did a great job bearing with the theme. She did ask me later on when we might do a "Little House on the Prairie" theme... hmmmm.... that would be interesting.... Anybody out there got any more great family night ideas that you have enjoyed???

A Post from Danny:

Labor Day was quite different for the Dustin Family this year... For the first time in my marriage, I spent more than an overnight away from Liz and my kids - in this case it was a trip to Boston with my dad, my brothers Steve & Scott, brother-in-law Todd & nephew Tyler. My brother Donnie, who lives in Colorado was unable to join us - we really missed you Donnie - you missed a great time! Dad found a 4 day tour to Boston to see the Orioles play the Red Sox for a 3 game series. Those of you who know me probably realize that I'm not the biggest sports fan, but I certainly wasn't going to turn down some male bonding - especially the opportunity to spend some time away with my dad.

The trip was quite an adventure - literally... I got up at 3:15am Labor Day morning to be at the bus (yep, I said bus), which left Hagerstown at 5:00am sharp. It was a sold out tour, so every seat was full. I was fortunate to get to sit with my dad the whole 11 hours there - I must admit that after that long trip, it was a bit challenging to go to the game & sit again... We arrived in Boston just after 4:00 & had time to get settled in our room before the game that evening. Our hotel was absolutely wonderful - the Sheraton at the Prudential Tower in Copley Square. It was in a great location, within walking distance from Fenway Park, gardens, many colleges, restaurants, etc. - pretty much anything we needed was nearby. It was great that Dad blessed us all by giving us this "all expenses paid" trip. However, I'm not sure any of us realized the cost it would have on our families - 5 wives were left behind to fend for themselves. I left knowing I would miss the kid's first day of school & our traditions that went along with it - but to my surprise I came back home to find that the teacher had decided to delay the start until the following week! What a great teacher! (one of the joys of homeschooling...) Seriously though - it was hard for me to leave Liz - in our entire marriage I have never left her alone other than to be with the boys or an overnight Men's retreat. I am living proof that the old saying "absence makes the heart grow fonder" is true! I missed my darling dearly, and though I had a wonderful time with my dad & brothers, I was very happy to be back home with her!

Here's Dad at our 3rd game (the "Green Monster" behind him). We had seats in different locations for each game - it really gave us a better flavor of the park. At 71, dad was just as energetic as anyone else - in fact, probably more! In fact, he put me to shame when I came out of the bathroom the first morning to see him doing calasthenics - part of his normal daily routine... no wonder he gets around so well.

Tyler, myself, Dad, Steve & Scott outside the hotel, just before heading over to Fenway Park, which was about a 15 minute walk.

On Tuesday, dad rented a van & we headed up to Haverhill, MA to see the Hannah Duston monuments. A brief bit of history: Hannah Duston (over the years, the family name has 'evolved' to Dustin - both are still used) was the first female in the US to have a statue erected in her honor - it's a bit controversial since she was honored for killing and scalping several Abekni Indians after being captured in 1697 - feel free to search the web - a good overview is at http://kingsley.locke.net/gen/dustin/hannah.htm

Here's our gang in front of the Duston-Garrison House, the home Thomas & Hannah Duston were building when the Indian raid started. It is normally only open on weekends, but a distant relative with "connections" opened it for us - I was surprised to see all the artifacts - of course I also enjoyed the design & construction of the all brick home.

Well, I really enjoyed the trip. While I certainly missed my family back here in Maryland, I had a wonderful time with my dad & brothers. I got to know them all a bit better - something I wish could have happened sooner. We had perfect weather - every day was in the 70's - sunny & beautiful. Thanks Dad for a great time - I love you! Danny.

Happy 13th Jacob!!!

I cannot believe how time has flown, and the baby that was born to Danny and I so long ago is now a teenager! Jacob has been unique and special from the start - he was born with the sack of water around him still intact - the doctors had to cut it from around him after he was born! They say this is very rare, and is a sign of genius!! I know, it's an old wives tale, but pretty neat nonetheless.

Jacob has grown to be a very sensitive, caring, kind and generous young man. He is respectful to his parents, and is very patient in dealing with the extreme attatchment of his younger brother. Jacob and his friends try to patiently include Ryan in what they are doing, and I am so grateful for the kind of older brother he is to Ryan.

At this point in life, Jacob's interests are making movies (far beyond my technical realm of knowledge), reading, building robots and legos, shooting airsoft guns, bow and arrow, riding his scooter, rollercoasters (the fast, scary ones) and he enjoys sci-fi movies with his Dad. It is a joy to watch his relationship with his Dad growing - I pray that they will always be close.
This is our cutie pie on his first birthday!! "Look at those EYES!!" is the phrase that Jacob has heard his entire life!!!

Jacob and Danny - again, look at those eyes!!

Jacob fell asleep waiting at the airport...

Jacob lounging in the chair

And I had to FIGHT for permission to post this one - Jacob has a very nice Link hat (a character from a video game) that he occasionally wears around - here he is helping Ryan make cotton candy in his machine. Jacob, you are just too cute!! (sorry, I know you probably hate that word now that you are a TEENAGER!!!)

Yep, Jacob can be very serious...

And he can be very funny and humorous - he cracks me up every single day!!

AND, he can be downright silly!!! You must watch this video to see the side of Jacob reserved for special occasions...

Jacob, you have been a wonderful son to me for 13 years. I have so enjoyed any time that we get to be together, whether out shopping, doing something special, or just cuddling. I know you don't prefer all my physical affection, but thank you for letting me express my love to you - you are so cute and irresistable - I just love to kiss and hug you all the time!! (as you know) I promise to try to control my impulses to squeeze and love you when we are around others... remember, I said I would try... haha Seriously, though, Jacob, thank you for being so responsive to me and Dad, for sharing your life with us, for opening up to us, for being a good example to your siblings, for serving us, and for your thoughtfulness. May God bless this next year with much grace, wisdom, health, fun, and a powerful sense and awareness of His amazing love for you!! We love you so very much and are so fiercely proud of you. Happy Birthday Jacob!!

Minnesota Vacation

Our trip was a few weeks ago now - I couldn't post anything as we had problems with the camera software. Danny finally had a moment to fix it for us yesterday so we are back on track again but have some catching up to do.

Minnesota was fun - it started out with a very early flight from Baltimore. This is a shot of everyone at the airport pulling their own luggage, including a suitcase full of books to give my sister. While there, we went to the Mall of America and took the younger two boys to a place where you build your own remote control car - it reminded us of Build-a-Bear, but with cars. It was one of the coolest places we have ever seen!!

One night the "guys" went out to see Dark Knight - the batman movie. Left to right is Uncle Ed, Matt, Danny, and Uncle Chris. It was really neat to see Matt going out with his Dad and two uncles...

One day we rented a pontoon boat and cruised up and down the St. Croix river (a three hour cruise I think) with Danny as our captain. We saw a ton of wildlife! And it was a beautiful day as well.

Here is our faithful Captain Danny - who was getting phone calls from work while we were out in the middle of the river!!

My beautiful neice Rebecca, who, incidentally, looks a lot like Drew Barrymore!! haha

Okay, I had to post this one - my sister Cathy went up to the front of the boat with some of the kids, and Danny couldn't resist trying to knock her off the boat by jerking the steering wheel - now THAT was a sight to see!!

We went to the Minnesota Museum of Science where there was a Star Wars Exhibit. That was pretty neat, but it didn't have everything the boys were hoping to see... but still fun.

Luke Skywalkers landspeeder

This is a view of Stillwater, MN, from the rooftop of, believe it or not, the town's beautiful public library! I told my Dad that I would give my right arm to have that library in my town - it had fireplaces everywhere with leather chairs for reading, curved bookshelves, stain glass windows, three stories of books, private study rooms that you can spread out and close the door (perfect for homeschool planning) and a rooftop terrace where you can eat your lunch as you view the St. Croix River!!! I think I would LIVE in that library if I lived there!!

This is a view of the indoor amusement park at Mall of America - very fun!

Hannah got to go horse-back riding one day, which included getting to take off the saddle, rub down the horse, brush it and feed it some treats. It was absolutely the highlight of her trip...

We ladies (me, Hannah, my mom and sister Cathy) went to a tea room in historic Stillwater. They have hats for you to put on and bottomless pots of tea - it too was a highlight for us. This is Cathy "putting on the airs" of an english tea-drinking lady!!

A great shot of Cathy, Hannah and Mom (Mom looks like she belongs in the Red Hat Society!!)

And lastly, Hannah posing in one of the many hats she wore that day. (She is practicing up for motherhood!!!)